“Why would Jesus let us die? Doesn’t He love us?”

Yesterday I preached the funeral of a very dear friend. Over the last ten years, Cindy has become “family” to me, my wife and our four daughters. For six of those years she has battled cancer, valiantly and selflessly. On Sunday afternoon, Cindy finally won: the cancer is dead and Cindy is in the presence of the Lord whom she loved, proclaimed and served. She enjoyed gazing on Christ from afar, and now she is doing so face to face. Victory!

To be honest, however, my heart aches. I feel almost schizophrenic–I have sincere joy for Cindy, but I also have a deep sorrow over the temporary loss of one so dear to me and those I love. Sure, I’m not sorrowing “as those who have no hope,” but I am sorrowing nonetheless.

As I spent extended time with Cindy’s family over the last few weeks, I had several opportunities to explain why God would allow such suffering to enter and end the life of one who loved Him so. The question faced me again last night as my five-year-old, with tears streaming down her face, told me, “I miss Miss Cindy.” She wept, and she surprised me with two very penetrating questions: “Why would Jesus let us die? Doesn’t He love us?”

How would you answer that?

I explained to her that Jesus absolutely loves us. “How much does He love us, Dear?” “So much that He died for our sins,” she answered. I explained that because Cindy knew Jesus as her Savior, the moment her body died, her soul–the real Cindy–was with Him. She’s seeing Jesus face to face. She’s not struggling to breathe. She’s not in pain. She’s happy with Jesus.” Esther appears to be satisfied with this.

I believe that there’s a bigger answer, however. Certainly God allows such trials for our sanctification and for His glory, but I’m thinking in even broader terms. I’m looking all the way back to creation and all the way forward to the New Jerusalem. How does death fit into God’s plan for mankind? Some basic lessons from Scripture have provided a perspective that has encouraged me.

1. The world which God created was good–“very good.” There was no sin, no suffering, no cancer, no death. That was God’s doing.

2. When mankind rebelled against God, sin and death marred God’s perfect creation. As a result, and in fulfillment of God’s warning, mankind is spiritually dead and physically dying. Cancer? Death? Suffering? These are man’s doing. Certainly God is sovereign over all things, but mankind is culpable for sin and its effects. The result of man’s rebellion is that all creation is now groaning under the curse. Why did Jesus let Miss Cindy die? “Thorn and thistle.” It’s all about man’s sin; it’s all about the curse; it’s all about sins’ wages. And I believe that as much as death grieves us, it grieves our Lord. In a sense, I believe it angers Him. This is not how He created the world to be. This is a perversion of His perfect Eden.

3. As soon as mankind sinned, God promised a solution. He promised a Savior that would crush Satan and undo the harm of the fall. The OT Scriptures again and again prophesied that God’s Messiah would reverse the curse, and for millennia dying God-fearers longed for His coming.

4. God’s Messiah did come. He fulfilled OT prophecy. He lived a perfect, sinless life, thus earning the very righteousness which fallen sinners lack. He died a sacrificial death, thus paying the penalty for mankind’s sin by suffering the very wrath of God. By His death and resurrection, Jesus defeated sin and death. He won. As a result, those who are spiritually dead can be made spiritually alive.

And yet our bodies die. The curse is not entirely reversed. Not yet.

5. We now await Christ’s return. His Second Advent is not merely about defeating the antichrist and inflicting judgment on a God-hating world; it’s about Christ finishing the job which God planned in eternity past and which Christ began two millennia ago. Sin has been defeated, but not yet banished. Death’s sting and victory have been removed, but death itself is still at large and doing its worst, even to Christ’s own. But only for a time. The delay in Christ’s return is a merciful allowance of time for sinners to repent, but God will not allow death to rage forever. Death’s days are numbered. So we wait.

6. At Christ’s glorious return, He will fix this mess–the mess created by man’s rebellion way back in Eden. In so doing, He will finally redeem His creation from the fall, and He will do so entirely. Thus, Revelation 21-22 presents a reclaiming of Genesis 1-2, and heaven is a restored and improved Eden:

Now I saw a new heaven and a new earth, for the first heaven and the first earth had passed away. Also there was no more sea. Then I, John, saw the holy city, New Jerusalem, coming down out of heaven from God, prepared as a bride adorned for her husband. And I heard a loud voice from heaven saying, “Behold, the tabernacle of God is with men, and He will dwell with them, and they shall be His people. God Himself will be with them and be their God. And God will wipe away every tear from their eyes; there shall be no more death, nor sorrow, nor crying. There shall be no more pain, for the former things have passed away.” Then He who sat on the throne said, “Behold, I make all things new.” And He said to me, “Write, for these words are true and faithful.” (Revelation 21:1-5)

And all of God’s creation will again be good–very, very good.

Yes, dear Esther, Jesus loves us. And He will not allow death to break our bodies and our hearts much longer.

“Even so, come, Lord Jesus.”


13 Responses

  1. I just read through Pastor Mark Minnick’s column in the Greenville news which describes the importance of Christ’s bodily resurrection from the grave. The entire article is brief and worth reading, but the last two paragraphs are especially germane to this post:

    Finally, there’s a third critical importance to this issue of the nature of Jesus’ resurrected body. It concerns the whole character of the salvation that Jesus Christ won for us. When we grieve at the graveside of a Christian loved one, the Bible comforts us with the bedrock assurance that Jesus Christ saves even more than the soul. Ultimately he will rescue the entire person, body, soul and spirit. Christians will be raised with bodies just like His own, once buried in the grave but through resurrection gloriously transformed.

    In fact, a Christian’s salvation climaxes in this redemption of his body (Romans 8:23), because not even it remains to be a trophy to the ravages of sin. Christ’s saving victory will set free everything over which sin has ruinously reigned, including these poor, frail, death-pocked bodies of ours. They, too, will gloriously testify to the perfection of Jesus’ mighty salvation when not a bone of them is left behind.

  2. “God will wipe away all tears from [our] eyes.”


  3. Blessings on you Chris, also on the church family and those dear to this sister. Thanks for thinking out loud with us on the Biblical principles which apply. I appreciate seeing your pastor’s heart….that is a blessing to me…..

    Straight Ahead bro!


  4. Your statement about Miss Cindy winning the battle with cancer reminded me of the way that my extended relative put it at Grandpa’s funeral last summer. When you receive Christ as your Savior, death is no longer your enemy, it is your friend.

    Thanks for the good biblical reminders.

  5. Chris—thank you so much for opening your heart and sharing this. I’m deeply moved by your perspective. I’ll not soon forget how you put it

    “For six of those years she has battled cancer, valiantly and selflessly. On Sunday afternoon, Cindy finally won: the cancer is dead and Cindy is in the presence of the Lord whom she loved, proclaimed and served. She enjoyed gazing on Christ from afar, and now she is doing so face to face. Victory!”

    Can’t read that one without tears. Thank you.

  6. But, Lord, tis for Thee, for Thy coming we wait
    The sky not the grave is our goal
    Oh trump of the angel! oh voice of the Lord!
    Blessed hope, blessed rest of my soul

    And Lord haste the day when my faith shall be sight
    The clouds be rolled back as a scroll
    The trump shall resound and the Lord shall descend
    Even so, it is well with my soul

    God’s blessings and peace be upon all who mourn the loss of such a dear family member and friend.

  7. Thank you, men, for your encouragement. Much appreciated.

    And thank you, Dan, for the link.

  8. Chris,
    You have blessed our family with your tender words and scripture readings these last few weeks. Mom would love to know all of the quality time we all spent together and I thank your family too for “sharing you” with us. Mom loved you too, like a son. God has wiped away some of my tears, and it is “getting well with my soul” but I still and will always miss her terribly. I hope we all keep in touch. I would like that and Miss Cindy would too.

  9. PC,
    I share with Juli….and thank you from the bottom of my heart for all of your support, encouragement, presence, and prayer…especially during mom’s final days. You (and the entire TBC congretation) are a blessing to us all. I am still receiving wonderful comments on the service, and many lives have been touched. Like Juli said, she will always be missed, but there is such joy in knowing that she has “won” the battle, and that she is now walking in His midst.

  10. […] the Lord that such agonizing, heart-rending sorrow is not eternal. “Even so, come, Lord Jesus.” (Rev. […]

  11. […] Pastor Chris Anderson touched me abidingly in the way he spoke of a dear friend who was taken by cancer nearly two years ago […]

  12. Chris:
    My wife, brother, and I just returned from placing my 90-year old father’s body in grave. Seemingly, death won out. But Christ has promised that the great enemy will be destroyed–death itself will die. Not only will the enemy be vanquished, the age-ravaged body of my father and mother will someday, at His word, be remade in the glorious image of the Savior. They are today with Christ, perfect, free and praising the Savior. They will someday be released for the grave’s grip, the cost of sin that we all shall bear. My dad served God as a pastor for 35 years and then in a counseling capacity to folks. He loved God and served Him the best He knew how. I look forward to the day when we be reunited in Christ’s presence and when the great penalty is finally and totally detroyed. Thank you for the words of great comfort and instruction.

  13. Amen, Doc. “Come, Lord Jesus.”

    Thanks for the kind words, for your kindness to me over the years, and for your passion to see Christ exalted. May your tribe increase!

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out /  Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out /  Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )


Connecting to %s

%d bloggers like this: